Worry is a silent killer.

It is like a slow poison. In fact, it is an illness which can be more dreadful than a physical illnesses. Worry not only affects our body but our mind and well being too.


If you think seriously my lovelies, you would find that it is really no use worrying about anything. It is really foolish to worry about past or future. Nobody can change the past. Whatever has happened has happened. It is how we react that matters! As for the future, how can something that has yet to come to pass affect us? How are we so certain that the future is so bleak? Things may turn out well. For example who could we have foreseen all the wonderful things and opportunities that are coming out of lockdown!

Worrying just tires us and diminishes our capacity for clear thinking and planning. It promotes negative thinking.

Instead of worrying we should use positive affirmations and resolutions. Instead let's power up and use our dance boss awesomeness to start problem solving, which requires clear thinking and planning. Worry makes us incapable of clear thinking and planning. Many things, if they are going to happen, will happen regardless of our worry. If it is going to rain, it will.

We worry for small things. The worst-case scenario may not even be bad enough to worry. You have made a parent angry. You worry that they may leave. What of it? That is not the end of the world. You still have your school. Perhaps you are better off without them anyway. Then you recieve a rather apologetic email saying they are sorry! It was their mistake! Not only should we not worry about little things, but we should also not worry about seemingly big things. The things that seem today very big and important will seem trifle tomorrow.

In your student life you must have worried for days about that pirouette exercise thinking you would fail your exam because it wasn't perfect. In hindsight, did you fail. No of course not, did you loose marks, maybe but in the bigger picture it really made no difference. How much you worried about your show costumes or seeing a group of parents, or what may or may not happen to your studio costs are just daily challenges. I like to label them like this instead of allowing them to becomes seeds of worry, which are potent. These daily challenges really are not going to mean diddly squat in 5 years time. Of course, no body worries for the sake of worrying. It seems that worrying is a sort of bad habit. As all bad habits the habit of worrying is also difficult to get rid of. So, in the first instance, start to reframe them as challenges. Secondly, try to divert your mind by planning and problem solving instead. Think of positive things. Keep yourself away from people who are habitually worrying types and hang around hugely positive personality types instead. Make the concious decision every morning to...